monthly gatherings

The most beautiful world our hearts know is possible begins with a gathering of people who remember.
— Charles Eisenstein

A grounded circle of men, stripped of performance, rooted in truth and nature.
We’re not here to fix—we’re here to remember. To sit in raw honesty, reclaim our strength, and rise as protectors, leaders, and brothers.
Through fire, land, ritual, and real connection, we return to something ancient and needed.
If you're ready to walk your truth—you've found your circle.

Kick off at 2 p.m. with an optional ice bath or just be there to support the brother in the ice—shake off stress, drop into stillness, and spark raw resilience.


Then we’ll gather to ignite the fire by hand, summoning Grandfather Fire the old way—through friction, focus, and ancestral grit.

A group of men building a wooden project outdoors during daytime, with some kneeling on the grass and several others standing in the background near trees and a tarp.

Meetings are held on the second Saturday of every month in Mollymook @ 2PM

Please arrive on time and stay until every man has shared. Strictly no drug and alcohol event


The invitation

  • To listen with an open heart: In this space, we dedicate most of our time to active listening rather than speaking. I invite each of us to engage fully, with the same respect and dignity we’d hope to receive. By holding space for one another, we release our own narratives and judgments, serving each other with presence and grace.

  • Speak from the heart, using “I” to own your story. It’s easy to slip into “we” or “you” to justify actions or point to external causes, but this can dilute our truth. Embracing the first person takes conscious practice, empowering us to fully claim our emotions and actions. Let your words flow authentically, expressing what truly needs to be said with honesty and courage.

  • Embrace brevity and choose words sparingly. While everyone will have time to share, we often feel the need to provide extensive context for our stories. Though some background is helpful, focus less on fine details and more on their significance—what they mean to you, the emotions they stir, and the truth of your experience.

  • Be spontaneous, no planning, and trust that what is meant to be said, will be said. When you preplan what you're going to say you can end up adding unnecessary layers to the story and miss out on opening up a few diamonds of thought, emotions, and realisations you weren't aware were there. Also, you truly can't be listening from the heart if you're busy planning what you're going to say before it's your turn. So get out of your own way and let it flow!

  • If you’re keen or maybe even slightly tempted to jump in the ice, bring swimmers, towel, and a change of clothes.

    A cushion to sit on the ground a chair if mobility is an issue.

    And your true authentic self

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