Return to the Fire

There comes a time in every man’s life when the old story no longer fits —
when the mask gets heavy, the distractions lose their grip,
and something deeper starts to stir.

This is that time.

MARCH MENS RETREAT ~ RETURN TO THE FIRE

Dates: March 19th-22nd 2026

Location: Bhundoo Bush Cottages - 1364A Yadboro Rd, Yadboro NSW 2539

This retreat lands at the beginning of autumn, a natural threshold for shifting gears, slowing down, and reflecting on what no longer serves us. It invites us to ask what we are still carrying and to lay down the unnecessary weight. Autumn is a season to strip back to the bare essentials, gaining clarity on what truly matters, and to realign with ourselves, with other men, and with the living world around us. This gathering marks the fifth Brothers of Bhundoo retreat held on the land, shaped by the learnings, depth, and trust built through those that have come before.

Regardless of life’s circumstances, when a man reconnects with himself and his emotions, moving from head to heart, body to spirit, and restores or deepens his relationship with loved ones and the land, clarity emerges and new potential becomes available.

Return to Fire is a four day men’s retreat designed to help men slow down, reconnect, and remember what truly matters.

Life can be hectic, and being given the space to simply be, without needing to perform or prove anything, is a rare gift. This camp offers time to reset, gain clarity around life’s challenges, and gently lay down the armour we often carry. To be fully yourself, held in the presence of brothers who can meet you there, is a powerful experience, one that naturally ripples out into the lives of those who matter most to you.

This gathering is not only about reflection. It is also about adventure, play, joy, and laughter. It is about sharing stories and speaking truth, trusting that when these are voiced, the wisdom and healing required can emerge.

Over the weekend, we gather on the land and around the fire to reconnect through honest conversation, shared experience, ritual, stillness, and brotherhood. There is space to speak, space to listen, and space to simply be.

No fixing.
No performance.
Just real men, real connection, and grounded presence.

WHAT TO EXPECT

  • Opening and closing circles held with intention

  • Time on the land, including solo sit spots

  • Guided breathwork and grounding practices

  • Group processing

  • Group discussions and shared reflection

  • Movement and embodied practices

  • Space for journaling and integration

  • Shared meals and informal connection

This camp is held in a respectful, grounded container. You choose how deeply you participate. Nothing is forced.

IMPORTANT CAMP AGREEMENTS

  • Confidentiality is essential, what is shared stays in the circle

  • Respect for the land, the fire, and each other is non negotiable

  • Phones are discouraged during group sessions to support presence

LOGISTICS & PRACTICAL DETAILS

To ensure the camp runs smoothly and everyone feels supported, please note the following:

  • Arrival: Please arrive on time for the opening circle. Late arrivals disrupt the container

  • Vehicles: All vehicles must be unpacked and moved to the designated area early to keep the camp space clear and grounded

  • Kitchen & Meals: Food roles will be clearly allocated. We ask everyone to respect the kitchen space and clean as they go

  • Schedule: A clear camp schedule will be displayed so everyone knows what’s happening and when

  • Personal Responsibility: Bring what you need to stay warm, dry, and comfortable. This includes appropriate clothing, bedding, water bottle, and journal

  • Safety: A designated wellbeing lead will be onsite throughout the camp

WHO THIS CAMP IS FOR

This camp is for men who feel disconnected, stretched, or out of rhythm with themselves or life.

It’s for men who want:

  • real connection

  • grounded conversation

  • time on the land

  • brotherhood without ego

  • space to reset and realign

  • Join a brotherhood of men in our community long after the camp ends

You don’t need prior experience with men’s work.You just need to come open and honest.

THE INVITATION

If you feel the pull to slow down, reconnect, and return to what steadies you, this camp is for you.

Come sit by the fire.

Come stand on the land.

Come reconnect with yourself and your brothers

Accommodation:

Plenty of space to set up your tent or swag under the stars. A few cottages are available, reach out if you'd prefer a spot.

Meals:

  • Bring along some snacks to share over the weekend.

  • We’ll be doing a contribution-based cook-up breakfast on the fire, with lunch and dinner provided.

What to bring:

  • A mat, cushion, or chair for sitting/lying down.

  • Plenty of layers it can get chilly

  • A notepad and pen for jotting down thoughts or journaling.

  • Swim gear...yes we'll be embracing natures ice bath and getting in the river!!!

  • Sturdy footwear for the bush.

  • Musical equipment 

  • Your fire kit if you’ve been collecting gear – we’ll have time to practice!

  • Any snacks and a contribution for brekkie Saturday and Sunday.

We recommend keeping technology to a minimum to get the most out of the experience. Lucky for us there no reception except for in an emergency.

If finances are tight right now, please reach out. We’d rather find a way for you to join us than miss out.

If you’d like a chat to find out more call Dean 0429578686

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